#429: Can People Change? How To Help Someone Grow

Are You Exhausted Trying to Help Someone Who Won’t Change? Here’s What Actually Works!

Have you ever bent over backward trying to help someone you love, only to feel like you’re getting nowhere? You’re not alone—and I’ve got good news: people can change. But here’s the kicker: they’ll only do it when it comes from within.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the psychology of change, the stages people go through, and the surprising reason why trying to force change never works (spoiler alert: it usually backfires). You’ll also learn powerful, actionable strategies to:

✅ Set healthy boundaries (without guilt).
✅ Protect your emotional well-being (because you matter too!).
✅ Provide the kind of support that actually encourages growth.

If you’re ready to stop feeling stuck and frustrated, and instead discover the most effective way to empower someone on their journey—this is for you. 🎧

Timestamps You’ll Love:
00:00 – Why It Feels Impossible to Change Someone Else
01:15 – Can People Really Change? (Yes, But Here’s the Secret)
03:45 – The Real Power of Intrinsic Motivation
06:20 – The Stages of Change: Where Your Loved One Might Be
12:40 – Setting Boundaries That Encourage Growth
18:55 – Avoiding the Trap of Enabling
23:15 – Free Tools to Help You and Your Loved One

BONUS GOODIES!
👉 Want to help a loved one uncover what’s really holding them back? Share my free What’s Holding You Back? Quiz with them—it’s designed to uncover hidden obstacles, subconscious blocks, and personal strengths to help them move forward with confidence.

👉 Don’t miss this week’s YouTube Livestream: How to Help Someone Who Doesn’t Want to Help Themselves (Thursday, 12 pm MT). You can even submit an anonymous question ahead of time here: www.growingself.com/dear-lisa.

This conversation could change everything. See you there! 🎥